Why Do Females Go
On
A Destructive Rampage
Debi Livingston
Have you ever ended a marriage or relationship because it didn't
seem to be working, hit your child out of anger, said something cruel
or broken something and later regretted it? And when these things
happened were you out of control?
These are all examples of a woman destroying things outside of
herself. What causes a woman to do this?
From birth, females have a set of ideals placed upon them to have
the perfect body, to act perfectly, dress perfectly and to have the
perfect man, family and children.
Most women spend their lives attempting to act out all these
"perfect pictures", including molding the people in their lives to
match these highly insane expectations. 
A downhill cycle is created that turns into a cyclone. It's like
having a photo album of pictures that say, "By the age of twenty I
should be married, by thirty I should have two kids, a two car garage
and a husband who is a successful executive," and so on.
What happens to the woman who becomes fixated by her album and
realizes she has not succeeded? She begins to destroy everything that
she perceives as wrong and to frantically create what she believes
she needs to have.
If her relationship has not matched these pictures she will get a
divorce. If she has not had her children yet she will go on a manhunt
to find a father, etc.
How does a woman get out of this destructive cycle??
She begins by taking the time to explore who she is and to sort
through her photo album to discern between what she truly wants for
herself and the expectations that have been placed upon her from
without.
She will most likely discover that everything she has been doing
up to that point has been done to receive the acceptance and approval
of her family. Once she is no longer deluded she may discover that
her husband is the perfect man, that her children are angels and that
she has no need to change herself or others.
Then, rather than destroy outside of herself she can begin to
destroy the "perfect pictures" that had her looking at her life with
a less than wholesome perspective.
You can look at a glass of water as half empty or half full. The
latter is better because you begin to see hope while the former
leaves you hopeless and careless.
In this state destruction begins because you've got a negative
attitude based upon insane expectations that even the Supreme Being
Himself could not uphold.
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