Women and Men

By Angela Silva

I am not writing this article to put women down. I am a woman myself. However, as most women know we can play some very strange games.

Women play on men emotionally because we know they are weak sexually. Now I know there are a lot of women who would say, "Men, weak?" However, the truth of the matter is that men are born with a sex addiction. Science has proven that men have a sex thought every fifteen seconds. In other words, they feel dependent upon women to fulfill a need.

Women, on the other hand, are born with an abundance of emotional energy. We don't have nearly as many sex thoughts as men, but the abundance of emotional energy can make us feel emotionally unstable at times, and at others as if we are superior to men. Both men and women have to learn how to handle their respective inheritances if they are to get along.

One game that women play that makes men lose interest in them is the, "Why don't you want to do what I want to do?" game, or the, "Why can't you see things my way?" game. When was the last time you made sure the man in your life suffered because he would not join in with what you wanted to do?

Here's a scenario. Your husband or boyfriend gets very upset just at the thought of you visiting a certain friend. He's noticed a pattern that every time you come back from this friend's house you sink into a depression and become distant from him. You tell him nothing is wrong and to leave your friendship alone. A few days later, after your friend's thoughts and worries have faded from your mind, you want to get close to him and snuggle but he's very distant. You have gotten over your emotional tizzy but he hasn't forgotten yet. Why?

A woman's emotions are more powerful than a man's. As a consequence, we have a tendency not to listen, because our extra emotional energy makes us believe we already know what's best, and what he is thinking or going to say. The communication between a woman and a man is like a giant and an ant; the ant is just too far away for the giant to hear. However, if the giant made it a point to hear the ant I'm sure something could be worked out. The giant could put herself and her fight to be right aside and listen.

If you would like to become friends with your mate the next time he is pleading with you, at least listen and weigh it out before you react emotionally. Listen with your golden ear at the love behind it.

(The Academy For Psychic Studies sponsors a Female Healing Clinic on Monday eves. and a Male Healing Clinic on Wednesdays eves. that can help with these issues.)