I just had the opportunity to teach
"Psychic Parent - Psychic Child Communication" at the Academy for
Psychic Studies. I love teaching this class because it shows me that
I have all the information I need as a parent and that there are no
experts outside of myself. It also validates my child as a fully
developed spiritual being who is learning about life in a growing
body. What I have come away with from the class is invaluable, being
able to validate myself as a parent and trust my own information. I
also learned to see the difference between when I am operating on my
own information and when I am not.
There are many approaches to parenting and the outside advice is
endless. There are probably more "How To" books and articles on this
subject than on any other. But I do not often see anything written
entitled "How to Find Your Own Answers as a Parent and Be Confident
In Them." What I discovered is that through using some simple
techniques taught at the Academy for Psychic Studies, I could clear
my screen of vision of all outside influences and experience peace of
mind about my parenting information. I became aware that when I had
the influences of others clouding my vision, that is when I
experienced being unsure about dealing with behavior problems,
over-reacted to situations, felt insecure about whether my daughter's
needs were met or wallowed in a pool of guilt that I wasn't living up
to some invisible parenting standards.
When I cleared this information that was not mine and the
emotional baggage that went with it, I felt at ease as a parent.
There were no questions, in fact, there were no thoughts on the
subject at all. I clearly see that the most important thing I have to
offer my child is a healthy mindset where I like myself because I am
being true to myself. What I see this meaning is using my mind to not
let any external person, place or thing control me. This is not an
intellectual process but an actual one of cleansing my psychic space
of foreign influences. I believe that if a child has a parent who is
using their mind to keep them well, then that child will learn to do
the same and that is of more benefit than going to the best school in
world for what is the use of information if you don't know how to use
it?
There were a couple of experiences that I had in that class and
that the students in the class also had that validate this
information. One is using the sixth chakra (clear sight or
clairvoyance) to deal with your children instead of getting
emotionally involved with the problems they are going through. An
example of this in my life are times when my daughter is having
temper tantrums, which is her way of dealing with anger and
frustration. Instead of falling into my emotions and getting
frustrated with her or feeling the weight of watching my child be
unhappy as a lump in my heart, I simply focused my attention on what
was causing her to have the tantrum. Instead of the focus being on
the child as angry or upset, my attention was on the energy that she
was having troubles dealing with that resulted in her throwing a
tantrum. When I do this, I find that she calms down sooner and that I
am not adding fuel to the fire, and that she does not get a "label"
put on her that she is wrong for having tantrums. When I told this
story to the students in the class, they also tried this with their
children and got the same results, the children calmed down and most
of the time, the parents did not have to intervene and solve the
problem for the child. Or, what I find is that if I do have to speak
to my daughter while she is going through this, that the
communication is very simple and she picks up that I am not upset
with her. It gives her a "doorway" out of that state of mind so she
can pass on to another one. The feedback from the other parents was
that they were able to maintain their amusement and stay non-involved
emotionally which helped their children to turn their own anger to
into amusement.
Another experience was with using a technique that actually clears
foreign influences from between you and your child. These influences
are present when you find your child seems different to you, that you
cannot connect with them or they don't listen to you or argue over
everything. My experience using this technique is that it puts us on
the same wavelength and melts away any static between us. The parents
in my class also experienced this noting that as a result of using
this technique, the time they spent with their children had more
focus, they enjoyed each other's company more and felt closer to each
other. These techniques are simple, even a child can do them.
I also loved seeing my daughter from a different perspective, that
she is already a complete person, even at two. She is a spirit in a
child's body and has a lot to teach me. I noticed that this is
another benefit of using these techniques, that I can more clearly
see my child as how she is instead of being so caught up in the role
of being the parent. It puts me more in her world of wonder and
discovery and taking things lightly which is definitely what she is
teaching me. If you are interested in looking further into this
subject, call the Academy for Psychic Studies for more information.
(800) 794-1991.
I just had the opportunity to teach
"Psychic Parent - Psychic Child Communication" at the Academy for
Psychic Studies. I love teaching this class because it shows me that
I have all the information I need as a parent and that there are no
experts outside of myself. It also validates my child as a fully
developed spiritual being who is learning about life in a growing
body. What I have come away with from the class is invaluable, being
able to validate myself as a parent and trust my own information. I
also learned to see the difference between when I am operating on my
own information and when I am not.