The Truth About Hypnosis
Although
hypnosis has been practiced for many, many centuries, it still
remains misunderstood and misrepresented by much of society today.
Recently,
a national morning show had a series on hypnosis. A hypnotist
had several people in trance who were acting out various suggestions.
On a given cue, they would all go back into trance, slumped over
and leaning on one another. For all practical purposes it looked
as though they were sleeping. I was enjoying the show, happy that
hypnosis was getting such great attention.
When
the demonstration was over, the reporter asked the participants
what they had experienced during the segment, especially when
they were so relaxed and leaning on each other. They all replied
"I was a sleep. I wasn't aware of anything. I was totally
sleeping."
This
is where people are given misleading information about hypnosis.
When you are in hypnosis, you are not sleeping like when you go
to bed at night. You are in a trance-like-sleep, where your body
and mind are relaxed together. For an observer, it may appear
as if the person is indeed sleeping, but they are not. When in
hypnosis you are totally alert, totally aware. You have simply
by-passed the critical factor of the conscious mind and moved
into your subconscious mind.
I have
been told by many clients that they had been to a hypnotherapist
before, but never went into hypnosis. I asked them why they believed
they were not in trance. The responses were always the same. "Well,
I never went to sleep. I heard everything the hypnotherapist was
saying. I remember everything that took place. I didn't feel like
I was hypnotized."
These
are some facts about being in hypnosis.
1)
You are not sleeping, like at night in bed.
2)
You are very aware of things going on around you. In fact, hypnosis
is a heightened state of awareness. You are more tuned in to your
surroundings, but so relaxed that things in the environment such
as noises outside, a phone ringing etc., don't bother you.
3)
Unless given a post hypnotic suggestion for therapeutic reasons,
you will remember everything you choose to remember about the
session.
4)
There is no weird feeling when in hypnosis. Hypnosis is a natural
state of mind we go into all the time. If you've ever spaced out
during a class or at work and started daydreaming, you were in
a light state of hypnosis.
5)
You can choose to come out of hypnosis any time you want to. However,
it is such a pleasurable, relaxing feeling, most likely you'll
decide to remain there for as long as you can!
6)
You are the one in control. If the hypnotherapist gives you a
suggestion you are not comfortable with, you won't accept it.
This is why you see a stage hypnotist send people back to their
seats in the audience - they were not in agreement to following
instructions and accepting suggestions. Does this mean the hypnotist
wasn't very good? No. It simply means that even the best hypnotist
can't make you do something you just don't want to do! Remember,
hypnosis is a consent state. You are making an agreement between
you and the facilitator that you will follow their instructions
in order to be guided into trance. No one can make you go into
trance without your agreement.
Can
everyone be hypnotized?
Most
people can easily be guided into trance. These are the basic "guidelines".
1)
You must have an IQ of 70 or higher.
2)
You must be willing to follow instructions.
Of
course there are other situations which would make it difficult
to go into trance, but for most people, that's all you need.
How
will I know if I'm hypnotized?
This
is a very important aspect for the client to know. When someone
is in trance, they will have certain physiological things happening
so the hypnotherapist can tell that they are in hypnosis. Eyes
becoming red and watery are two examples. However, even if the
hypnotist told you, "Oh yes, you went very deep, I could
tell", but you had no proof, what good would it do?
A good
hypnotherapist will always have you do certain exercises when
in trance, that can only be done from the subconscious mind. We
call these "convincers". Let me explain why this is
so important.
Your
subconscious mind does not know the difference between what is
real and what is not real. When a suggestion is accepted into
the subconscious mind, it has got to happen - there's no way it
can't happen. So if you are told your eyes are locked tight and
you try to open them and can't - that becomes a convincer. Or
maybe the suggestion is that your arm is so heavy it feels impossible
to lift. You try to lift that arm and by God, it feels too heavy,
you just can't lift it. That becomes a convincer. 'Deductive reasoning
says there's no logical reason why I couldn't open my eyes or
lift my arm - but I couldn't. Wow, I must be hypnotized!' Now
you will more readily accept the ideas for healing and change
you are seeking.
People
also tell me, "oh I'm much too stressed out and uptight to
be hypnotized, I'm not relaxed." You do not need to be relaxed
before going into trance! Relaxation is a by-product of having
been in hypnosis, not a pre-requisite!
I believe
everyone should know how to be guided into their subconscious
mind, if for no other reason, than to release stress. It is a
powerful tool available to us all. You can amaze yourself if given
the opportunity. The more we can get the correct information about
hypnosis out to the people, the more people can have the direct
experience for themselves. And that's what it's all about! |