The Love Antidote

By Rev. William Duby, Founder & Pastor
1945-2001

It is insane to presume that you will ever be happy by desiring another to love you besides the God of your heart. This is the very reason why so many people are unhappy. They are making themselves miserable while expecting the impossible. Expecting the impossible is not only impractical but foolish. No wonder so many are beside themselves. They have side stepped the issue of love when it comes to the truth.
The vast majority are beyond themselves when dealing with love in a practical manner. In other words, love is a practice. As said, “practice makes perfect. ”Jesus demonstrated the love of God when He kept referring to the Father. “ I and the Father are One. ”He is letting the people know that He is in love (heaven) with the Father (feeder) and the Father is in love with Him. This is why He’s called the Way Shower. He did what others only talked about for Christ sake. He came off the mountain top and demonstrated to the ordinary folk the way.
When love is in demonstration (execution), the demons of doubt, worry and fear are dispelled from the mind because the heart has come into amusement. It is inspiring. It is most becoming - for you are virtually yourself. A desire to play in (honest to God) fun is precedent. A change of venue has taken place. You are set into your freedom because you are well suited with God (Love).
You are forgiven.
You have forgiven yourself.
You feel clean, clear and upright rather than dirty, foggy and uptight.
All confusion has ceased in your life stream. All is well for you’ve arisen from the hellish “nightmare that you did dream, that you were not the only One (in relationship with the God of your heart) and thus by you was doubt begun. “It is refreshing. A quiet smile does appear upon the face (from the heart) as simply as the sun arises in the sky and shines upon the morning glory.
When love is practiced in the practical sense, without pretense, as described (in the Holy Writ) by Jesus - then love is divine. Such love is healing balm for the soul. It settles the issue of loneliness. Lovers have forgotten that the purpose of love is to restore, to regenerate and to renew. What’s practiced in the guise of love on earth, in general, is not love but hatred for God, and taken out upon His people that have need of discipline (spiritual training). People of God are so foolish when it comes to the sacred duty of seeing clearly that love matters above all else. So easily do they get their heart broken when trying their best to love someone who isn’t in love with the truth for the sake of the truth. Love is the inspiration of God for us to exist within the realm of His existence of eternity. Life begins now for those that are in love with the love of God for the truth.
Love is the mathematical precise energy that holds the entire galactic universe together. Hence, Love (the real thing) is divine. The Deity did not design this Universe (Creation) in a haphazard manner. He had an ideal in mind. It was an immaculate idea that is excellent beyond belief. He created faith, and light came into being. His faith is His Light. His Light is His Love. His Love is His Self. His Self is His Spirit. His Spirit is the Supreme Being.
We are being supreme when in His Spirit. When in His Spirit, we are inspired. When inspired, His Spirit is in Us. When His Spirit is active within us, we become enthused. When enthused, intuitive. When intuitive, guided. When guided, united. When united, whole. When whole, well. With God there is hope, because of His Presence (Consciousness) with us. Not only can we relate, but we are relatives because we’re relative to one another as sisters and brothers.
Only the God of your heart is well suited for you. Perfectly matched to your personal vibration of existence. All others are not. Nor, I might add, can they be. The universe will support only one of a kind. Why? Well, take a look at the word, UNIVERSE. It is composed of two parts. Uni + verse. Uni means: ONE. Verse means: STANZA. The synonym for STANZA is PASSAGE. Hence, Universe does mean: ONE PASSAGE. Or, ONE WAY.
What is the way of the Universe?To bring forth into being - ONE!To create one witness. You are a witness of the loving work of the universe in relationship with the God of your heart.
The universe has loved bringing you forth into being like God. I didn’t say to make you God. I said: LIKE GOD. You and God are alike, alike in the sense that you are a - ONE. There is not another like you. Consequently, no other can be like you, save the fact that your body can reproduce an image and likeness of itself. Your body however, is not you. It is your covering. It is covering your soul.
You are within your soul as spirit. Spirit is what you are and what supports the body. The body is dependent upon you. You, however, are not dependent upon the body. The body will remain here while you pass on. You must pass out before you can pass on. You cannot pass on until you have passed the point of no return. And you cannot reach the point of no return until you meet your Maker. He will not meet you until you put the make on Him above and beyond all others.
As long as you are desiring another to be in the place (where the God of your heart has rightful place) of a relationship with you - sorrow will be your lot. It will not be a happy state, for you will not like yourself a lot. You will know because you’ll not love your lot in life. If not, well then, you’ve just awakened to the truth. It happens in the best of families. You might be finally getting somewhere by going nowhere.
We go nowhere to get somewhere in most cases. It doesn’t have to be that way. It is for many who have become deluded. It is a learning lesson to go nowhere. After they are finished ranting, raving and delighting in their insanity - they calm down and reflect. In any event - many go nowhere to go somewhere. That somewhere is always here; namely, in the now (present time).
NOW - it may be a time for change. A change in attitude regarding the proper place and position of yourself in relationship to the God of your heart. He’s first because He’s chosen for you to love yourself first, as He does Himself, then you can try the world on for size. If we desire to not only survive but prevail, we will pray to do so. If not, we’ll begin to prey upon the first unsuspecting soul we see that gives us an ounce of attention. We’ll set them up to let us down. Or, we’ll allow them to set us up to let them down. It doesn’t matter which way the game is played. We’ll begin to love unlike the God of our heart. And, as a result of being foolish, we’ll end up in hell or put someone else through hell. That’s just the way it is when love is unreal. It seems at first to be - too good to be true. Validate yourself - it is. Unreal!.
It is when you reject God that you lose your heart for life. Your spirit is torn asunder. You are in need of a healing for well being. It is when you accept God that you begin to live within His means. You will know when you are there because you are in love with the truth for the sake of the truth. Others will know it because they will realize that you mean it.
Whenever you are desiring another to love you for you, you are sick. It was never designed by God for that protocol to take place for well being. Even if another desired to love you for you, they could not do so as well as the God of your heart has already done. No one is well suited for you save the God of your heart. There may be many that are compatible. Compatibility and a perfect match are two different things. Only the God of your heart is well suited for you as first and foremost. You are a perfect match. There is no other like Him. Likewise, there is no other like you. Each is identical in place and purpose with each other. Closer in relationship than a mother and child. You two are perfectly united as Creator and created, as creative in being the eternal fiat. And it is the same for all. This is why the metaphysical statement: ALL IS THE ALL WITHIN ALL.
No creation of the Creator can love another creature, as they were loved into being the exacting celestial image and spiritual likeness of the Lord of Hosts. It is ludicrous to even imagine that such a possibility could exist. For if it were possible, then there would be more than One God. And who doesn’t know by the validity of life experience, that when you have two rather than one, there is confusion in place of fusion. All must have a source if regeneration is to take place. There could be no upliftment if more than ONE SOURCE did exist. Confusion would set in. Such a condition would be similar to chaos. All would be mixed up. I would be you some of the time. You would be me some of the time. We might be someone else at other times. We wouldn’t have stability. Without order there couldn’t be peace. No peace, no rest.
If you have had any religious upbringing (and if you haven’t then you have dire need of an spiritual overview for a wholesome perspective) worthwhile, then it should be quite clear, by the validity of life experience, that it is immoral to expect another human being to love you other than the Divine Human of God. It is sacrilegious to think otherwise. And, as I have repeatedly stated, “this is the main theme of why so many are other than wise. ”Expecting the impossible, will cause insanity. And whomever is insane is deluded, because they are stuck on a “perfect picture. ” They are in need of a healing because of self righteousness.
The God of the heart is the Source of all for well being. When in that state of existence, the life of yourself is in rapport with all who have need of your heartfelt conviction. You are a pleasure to be around. They will feel at ease because you are at ease with yourself. There will be nothing to prove to anyone for any reason whatsoever. All will be well. All because the head tripping of secretly desiring to bed hop has ceased for well being. And what is most important to recognize is that the journey through the heart has begun. All because you’ve decided to apply some common sense in your life for a change.