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Count
your Blessings,
The Power of Positive Thinking
By Debi Livingston,
BCH, CI
I
remember being told as a child to count my blessings, but the suggestion
always had a negative connotation to it; There are starving people
in Africa, youd better count your blessings you have food to eat
every day...you better count your blessings I didnt ground you for
a week after what you just did. This one always got me; Your
father will be home from work soon and youd better count your blessings
that hell be in a good mood. So for me, counting my blessings was
nothing more than pleading to God that some horrific catastrophe wouldnt
strike our lives! This is NOT what this article is about.
There is indeed a very positive and very powerful phenomenon that happens
when you start to count your blessings; you begin to feel better about
yourself and your life - really! To bless means to energize. When you
count your blessings you are focusing your mind on all the positive aspects
you have in the moment and energizing them, rather than energize all the
negative stuff going wrong. Whatever type of thought you think releases
a specific physiological response throughout your body. People who suffer
from depression are known to lack a normal amount of seratonin
in their brain. This is the feel good chemical naturally produced
in the body. When you think positive thoughts, which is what you are doing
when you are putting your attention on all the good things you have going
for you, your brain is releasing the corresponding chemical resulting
in the overall feeling of peace and well being.
Go ahead and try this right now. Think about something that makes you
mad or unhappy and frown while doing so. Notice what you feel. Now think
about something that makes you happy and smile at the same time.
Notice
the difference?
But Debi, I just dont have anything in my life to bless. Oh really?
Youre reading this article right now. Bless your healthy eyes! Bless
your ability to know how to read! Start by blessing your physical body
and work your way out from there. Do you have a roof over your head? Food
to eat? Maybe its not the home of your dreams right now, but its
a start.
I also know its easy to say think positive thoughts when the pattern
has been to allow the negative self-talk to take dominion over our minds.
And, faced with monthly bills, health issues or a broken relationship
it can be difficult to consistently find something for which you are thankful.
This is where utilizing hypnosis plays a powerful role in creating a healthy
new mind-set filled with positive thoughts every day!
All habits, including the habit of negative or positive thinking, is created
in the subconscious mind. Think of an old fashioned record where the needle
goes around and around in a groove. This is like the pattern of thoughts
we entertain. If you have a long running habit of negative self-talk,
then attempt to think one positive thought, the needle will bounce right
back into the groove which has been energized over and over again. However,
you can go into your subconscious mind and from that state, think positive
thoughts, and they will be accepted! You will soon create a new habit
of healthy thinking.
Still have doubt? This is an exercise I love to do with my clients. Your
subconscious mind has all the memory of every experience youve ever
had, good or bad. Within these experience memories are the emotional feelings
attached to the situation. When my client is in trance I have their subconscious
mind bring them back to a happy day in their childhood. It is as if they
are right there, re-experiencing the day all over again. The feeling of
childlike, carefree happiness is very strong. Now we can take that feeling
and bring it into the present moment, while they are focusing on the positive
aspects of their life. The results are powerful; they are focusing on
the present, while feeling a real emotion of happiness. They have created
a new imprint which helps them become successful in counting their blessing
and thinking positive, prosperous thoughts every day.
Begin right now. Take a moment and start counting your blessings for everything
positive in your life. Do this every day and in a very short amount of
time, you will notice a vast difference in how you feel about yourself
and the world around you. The right use of your mind is the key to healthy,
happy, prosperous, successful living. |